When the First Call Is to Mom or Dad: Helping Your Child Through a Car Accident

July 3, 2025

I asked a 19 year old relative recently what they would do if they were in a car accident.  It is no surprise but the answer was “Call my mom”.


 I asked the question to try and better understand how to reach younger people who have been in car accidents and can use my help, but the answer I got triggered an interesting thought: what would a car accident lawyer tell a parent to tell their child who just got in a car accident?


This Blog is an attempt to answer the question: “What do I tell my adult child who just got in a car accident?”


Step 1: Get the Facts


I would begin by asking questions to make sure you know what is going on; and they would be some mix of:


Are you ok?

Is everyone else ok?

Are you in a safe place?

What happened?

These questions help you quickly assess their safety and the situation at hand.


Step 2: Reassure Them and Focus on Safety


Then I would go with some general advice:


Get to a safe place if you aren’t already.

Don’t panic; just breathe, we will get through this.

Helping them stay calm is one of the most important things you can do in the moment.


Step 3: Immediate Actions to Take at the Scene


Depending on the severity of the incident I would then give the following advice:


Call 911 (Both police or for ambulance or fire support).

Call your insurance company.

Take pictures of the cars, the accident scene, and any damage or injuries.

Gather contact information and insurance details from all other drivers and any witnesses. 

If you can drive the car home safely then great; otherwise call a tow truck (or have your insurance or the police call a tow truck).

Either get a ride to the hospital or home or have someone pick you up. 

These steps will help protect your child both physically and legally.


Step 4: Regroup and Next Steps


After the dust settles:


Talk to your child about what happened.

Decide together what to do next. 

Determine if your child needs a lawyer. If you’re not sure, review our blog “When/Why Should You Hire An Attorney After A Car Accident.”

If needed, call a lawyer and schedule a free consultation.

There is no downside to calling a lawyer after a car collision. They will be able to quickly determine if they can help you or not, and at least at Hunking Law, consultations are free. A good lawyer can guide you through the process and will ensure that your child’s rights are protected.


Conclusion


I have no idea if this blog will be helpful, but I am hopeful that someone somewhere reads it and they are a little more prepared for this situation than they otherwise would have been. 


If your child has been in a car crash in Oregon and you’re not sure what to do next, don’t hesitate to reach out – we’re here to help. Call us today at 541-HUNKING, 541-486-5464.

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